Clergy men and women have a wonderful and challenging vocation. They are often expected to be all things to all people... and to be perfect to boot! Unfortunately, many clergy believe this themselves and carry an unrealistic burden of responsibility, have poor definitions of boundaries, and neglect their own personal needs ( including their spiritual lives!) This leads to overwork, burnout, a feeling of martyrdom and resentment, and often a gnawing doubt about one's path and vocation.

     In working with clergy, I support them in taking stock  of their whole life: their involvements and responsibilities, their relationships, their dreams, their recreation. We look at where there is balance in their lives ..or not. I would give particular attention to their spiritual lives: how much time and how regular are they in their prayer, meditation, and in self examination?

     Examining boundary issues is an extremely important part of our work, because most of us in the ministry or the healing arts have a care giver mentality that makes it hard for us to say no. Church family dynamics frequently make the clergy targets of unrealistic expectations and upsets from their congregations. In order to achieve balance, clergy need to learn how to unhook themselves from these projections.

     Clergy are often isolated and afraid of confiding in their peers, the very people who would best understand their plight. I offer them an understanding ear...and a peer support group for those who would like to have such a community of support.

     Finally there is the issue of vision, something that sometimes gets lost in the overwhelming daily demands. As you create more space in your life, your vocation will become clearer and it may lead you in interesting ways you did not expect. I honor your path and look forward to accompanying you on your journey!

My office is located Pasadena, CA